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Why Do Some Couples Enjoy Anal Sex?

 

Men and women of all walks of life enjoy anal sex as an alternative to everyday lovemaking. It's not for everyone, but anal sex may be what you're looking for if you want to try something different. Though anal sex for many seems like a taboo activity, and much of society still shuns it, statistics show that roughly 35% of heterosexuals practice anal sex at least occasionally.

Anal sex is enjoyable for men because the tight anal sphincter rings provide strong sensations to a thrusting penis. Generally, for women, the pleasure derived from anal intercourse is due to the shared nerve endings located between the rectal wall and the vagina, and/or from indirect stimulation of the G-spot. The anus contains many nerves as well, which can also react in a pleasurable manner when excited. My post Anal Sex from a Female Perspective describes what anal sex feels like for a woman. If you want to try anal sex with your wife or girlfriend, but are uncertain of her reaction, use the approach I recommend in How to Make Her Want Anal Sex.

Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. While people often experience pain when first attempting anal sex, as a person learns to relax, the pain often subsides into pleasure. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's entirely possible to enjoy anal sex as a safe and fulfilling part of your sex life.

10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex 

Many people believe that anal intercourse hurts and that it is always an uncomfortable experience. This is quite simply false. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. Actually, anal intercourse can provide a unique form of pleasure for both men and women. Anal sex is enjoyable for men because the tight anal sphincter rings provide strong sensations to a thrusting penis. Generally, for women, the pleasure derived from anal intercourse is due to the shared nerve endings located between the rectal wall and the vagina, and/or from indirect stimulation of the G-spot. The anus contains many nerves as well, which can also react in a pleasurable manner when excited. If you follow the 10 steps below, you can ensure that your first anal sex experience is pleasurable rather than painful. Read more

500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets 

Best-selling author, Michael Webb has appeared on over 500 radio and television shows including OPRAH! Though not all 500+ ideas in Michael Webb's course will be perfect for you, you should discover hundreds of new, fun and fresh tips that will take your lovemaking to a much higher level.

Here's just a sample of what you'll learn...
  • 4 different methods to help prevent him from finishing too early
  • 24 tips and techniques to give a woman's clitoris more pleasure
  • A simple "trick" to feel more pleasure wearing a condom while still being safe. Hint: It's not wearing a thinner one!
  • The best light bulb color to intensify orgasms, and no, it's NOT red!
  • 21 tips and techniques to give a man more pleasure during oral sex
  • A little short? This little "trick" will make her feel you deeper and increase her level of pleasure.
  • A simple technique to give him more pleasure with your hand
  • A striptease is a great way to excite your partner but do it wrong and it could kill the mood.
  • A unique way to top off a lovemaking session that could make it a truly unforgettable experience
  • Combine these two things for a unique sensation when giving oral sex and surprise her like she never thought possible with this technique.
... and much more!

In addition to the hundreds of ideas, "500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets" also includes a section of the "Most Common Lovemaking Positions" (and additional ones for the adventurous and athletic) along with explanations of the benefits of each one, and a "Lubrication Guide" that gives you the pros and cons of those on the market.

To get the FREE course "5 Quick and Easy Ways To Spice Up Your Lovemaking Starting Immediately" by OPRAH! love expert Michael Webb, Click here.

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Anal Sex Positions 

Women are often just as excited as men to be venturing into the anal aspect of sex. Many couples find that anal sex is a tremendous tool to enhance their regular sex activities. It's a unique feeling that is completely different to vaginal sex and worth experimenting with.

For couples trying anal sex for the first time, choosing the best position may make the difference between a painful or pleasurable experience. Though doggie-style may be the most popular anal sex position, it's not necessarily the best one for beginners. My article Which Anal Sex Positions Are Best for Beginners? describes several anal sex positions, and tells you which ones are best for beginners and why. If you've already indulged in anal sex, here are three great anal sex positions.

Anal Sex on Amazon 

Anal Massage for Lovers Vol 2

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Better Sex Video: The Better Sex Guide to Anal Pleasures VHS

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Sex / How to: Nina Hartley's Guide to Anal Sex VHS

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Anal Sex for Men 

The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located just in front of the rectal wall a few inches inside the rectum. Some men experience orgasms induced solely by prostate stimulation, while others find that the quality of their orgasms is more intense when the prostate is involved. Anal penetration is the only way to stimulate the prostate, the male equivalent of the G-spot. Here are some tips for safe and fun exploration of male anal play:

How to Bend Over Your Boyfriend and Make Him Like It
While it still remains taboo in some circles, heterosexual anal sex seems to be gaining in popularity, and some couples are even exploring male anal penetration by the female partner, a sexual practice known as Bend Over Boyfriend (BOB) or pegging. These days more and more men are becoming interested in anal pleasure and comfortable with the idea of letting their female partners take control in bed. Read more

Prostate Massage for the Ultimate Male Orgasm
Usually, we consider the penis to be the only male sex organ, but the prostate is a man's other sexual organ. The prostate is a gland of the male reproductive system located underneath the bladder and just in front of the rectum. Widely considered to be the male equivalent of the female G-spot, there is a lot of pleasure to be had from the prostate. When performed correctly, a prostate massage can give a man a much more intense orgasm than he has ever experienced before. Read more

The Sexual Mastery Course 

Women can have a hard time achieving orgasm during intercourse, which we often blame on our partners, but climax lies within a woman's control. In fact, a woman can have eight different types of very satisfying orgasms. Al Link and Pala Copeland will lead you and your partner to sexual nirvana through a true multi-media training experience in the "Sexual Mastery Course." You get PDF e-books containing all the techniques, background information, color photos, and resource lists you need to achieve sexual mastery. You'll find the friendly but detailed narrative refreshing because it doesn't read like a medical textbook.

Master these techniques and she'll never say "no" again. The "Sexual Mastery Course" also teaches men to last longer, have deeper pleasure, and become multi-orgasmic. In addition to the e-books, you also receive almost four hours of MP3 audio files you can play on your computer, on an MP3 compliant CD player, or in the privacy of your iPod device. This is an excellent course for the very modest price.-

To find out more about the "Sexual Mastery Course," Click here.

Sex Secrets 

"Sex is just the beginning, not the end. But if you miss the beginning, you will miss the end also."-Osho

Sex Secrets is my blog about the always fascinating topic of sex.

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