Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth to stimulate the female genitals. This can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina, and most often involves direct stimulation of the clitoris. Some women find cunnilingus to be the most satisfying sexual act. A great number of women report that oral sex is the only way they can achieve orgasm. The mouth can create a uniquely intense range of sensations which many find unrivaled.

5 Tips for Doing It to Her

1) Lick her like an ice cream cone--big soft licks from stem to stern with a wide flat tongue stimulate all the nerves in her genital area. Go deliciously slow to make her feel like a yummy dessert being savored, or speed it up a bit and focus more on the clitoral area to push her towards orgasm.

2) Check the hood. Most women prefer to have their clitorises licked through the "clitoral hood." This is a fold of skin that covers the actual glans of the clitoris, which is extremely sensitive.

3) Dive in. Build up the intensity level gradually. Once you're into it, use your whole face during cunnilingus. Bury yourself in her vagina. Get your tongue in as far as possible, and use your nose for more pressure. Not only does this feel good physically, but it lets her know you are really into her taste and smell.

4) Insert two fingers into her vagina while licking her clitoris. Curl those fingers up towards your tongue, capturing her clitoris and G-spot between your mouth and fingers. As your tongue licks up, pull down with your fingers. Get a rhythm going.

5) Suck her into your mouth. Gentle suction is a nice variation on the licks and downward pressure of most cunnilingus. While you've got a nice piece of her sucked in your mouth, lick it while maintaining the suction.

There is no right or wrong way to provide your partner with good cunnilingus. It will vary from woman to woman on what she enjoys and how much pressure she likes. Start by communicating to find out what she likes, and then, as you try different techniques or strokes, to make a note of which ones make her moan or get a reaction good or bad. From there you can then refine and improve your technique.

For more tips on doing it to her, read my tutorial 5 Steps to Perfect Cunnilingus. When you reach the point in your oral lovemaking where she is highly aroused and ready for finger insertion, there are 4 advanced techniques you can try.

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Most men love oral sex performed on them for a few reasons. It of course feels really good, especially when it is done well. It makes them feel desired, and, of course, it lets them know that you really appreciate their penis and them.

5 Tips for Doing It to Him

1) Act like you want to be there. A woman who's performing simply because she has to is the number one passion killer. Enthusiasm will turn him on more than any technique will.

2) On the other hand, don't be too rough. Don't bite, yank back the foreskin, suck too hard, or pump up and down like you're trying to draw water from a dry well. Keep your teeth covered at all times with your lips.

3) Don't forget the rest of his body. The scrotum and testicles are particularly sensitive, and most men like them to be stimulated. Try lightly licking or touching his testicles during oral sex. He might also like them to be cradled gently in one of your hands. Some men go wild when you place your hand around the top of the scrotum and gently tug down.

4) When he's about to ejaculate, put pressure on the area between his scrotum and anus which is where the prostate gland is located. You should feel it jerking with his ejaculation. This makes for extra sensation.

5) Don't act as if semen is poison. You don't have to swallow, but you don't need to run out of the room either. Don't leave him in the lurch -- switch to using your hand, or let him leave a little mess elsewhere on your body. If you would like to make fellatio an even better experience for your man by swallowing his semen, try these seven tips for overcoming the gag reflex and the taste.

Most men will be thrilled with whatever you're doing. If you're enthusiastic, passionate, and sexy, he'll go wild, and your confidence as a lover will skyrocket.

For more tips on doing it to him, read my tutorial Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It. Once you've mastered deep throat, there are 5 advanced techniques you can learn to make deep throat even more enjoyable for your man.

Deep throat is the ultimate oral sex technique because it doesn't come naturally to anyone. Since the average erect penis is longer than the average mouth is deep, deep throat requires suppressing the gag reflex in order to partially swallow the end of the penis. In order to perform this type of oral sex, the penis recipient controls all the muscles at the back of the throat and flattens the tongue, while gradually inserting the erect penis completely. Deep throat is a skill that must be learned and practiced.

Why would you want to learn to deep throat? Five reasons immediately come to mind:

1) It is very visually arousing for your man. Many of you have seen videos or pictures of a woman deep throating an erect penis. It is a very erotic image, especially watching her neck and throat expand and bulge as the penis slides in and out, and one that all men are turned on by.

2) When done right, with enthusiasm and skill, most men find it very, very pleasurable. The pleasure of deep throating is created by the pleasurable ring of tightness around the circumference of the penis just below the head, with the most intense sensation focused on the exquisitely sensitive underside of the penis where the head joins the shaft. Imagine your delight when you hear your man moan with pleasure as you do things to his penis that most men only dream of.

3) If you don't like the taste of your man's semen but he wants to ejaculate in your mouth, when you perform deep throat, the head of his penis is in so deeply that it extends past the taste buds that are on the back of the tongue. While this doesn't completely eliminate the taste, it is not as strong when done this way.

4) It is empowering for a woman to do. Your man must completely trust you. You have all the control.

5) You may find giving deep throat very arousing and pleasurable yourself. For women who already enjoy giving oral sex to their man, adding reasons 2, 4, and (for some women) 3 to the experience, can take their enjoyment to a whole new level.

There are lots of ways to give your lover vast amounts of oral pleasure without him entering your throat, but it's worth trying. If you're ready to learn the ultimate oral sex technique, read my tutorial Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It. Once you've mastered deep throat, here are 5 advanced techniques you can learn to make deep throat even more enjoyable for your man.

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